We should just be the master of them and not be a slave instead!!
What is it like to live within our means?
Again, it is about individual’s ability to control the temptation to buy and purchase. Of course, if it is necessary like buying an oven for baking and hosting, then we just got to get it. But have we thought of other options like sharing with neighbours, friends, or recycle the oven from friends whom no longer bake, get from the thrift shop etc?
Fundamentally, I personally think that to live within means it is possible if we are willing to withstand some inconvenience like taking a cab vs sharing a bus or MRT during raining days. Is being convenient more important than saving a few dollars?
This is a good read and I really felt that getting is not just a moment of passion and decision. Not only is the lifelong commitment one is plunging into but also the cost incurred to have a blissful marriage. Else, paying off the wedding bill may just be the first but not only conflict after the weeding day!
Plan ahead boys and girls!
Adapted from teenageinvesting.blogspot.sg
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Firstly, whether you’re single or attached, you first need to ask yourself this. What does marriage means to you? What does marriage means to your significant other?
For most of us, it’s about building a life and a family together with that special someone. For others, it’s about romance.
“It’s about waking up and going to bed with that special someone every day, every night. It’s a commitment and pledging yourself, to remain faithful, loyal and go through all sorts of ups and down with him/her. It’s about learning how to compromise, trust and love.”
Now, I’m about to address something which I feel that many Singaporeans forget. After reading till here so far, you would begin to understand that Marriage is between you and your partner. No one else. Not your parents, your relatives or even your friends.
It’s the same for the Wedding you will now begin planning for. The main point about having a wedding is to share the joy of this special day with your family and loved ones yes. But never forget, the wedding is and will always be, about you both. Therefore, you don’t have to succumb to social pressure to have the biggest and grandest wedding because your pride is at stake and end up regretting and getting saddled up with huge debts after what could have been the happiest moment of your lives. Don’t throw that all away by regretting and blaming each other (which is very possible) after that.
Okay now that you’re clear about that, let’s move on to the planning!
I’ll give it to you straight, the costs of a wedding can, and will cost between
That’s a lot of money.. isn’t it? And for most of us, we have nowhere near that amount of money. I’m talking about teenagers here, who already have a planned future in mind.
Let’s break it down.
Wedding Packages typically include the Bridal Gown, Evening Gown, ROM Dress, Groom Suit, Flower Bouquets, Bridal Car Decoration as well as Make-up and Hair-Do.
Don’t forget that ROM Packages and Actual Day Wedding Packages are two different things.
ROM Packages price start from $400++
Actual Wedding Package price start from $500++ for Half Day and $900++ for Full Day.
Total packages cost can range from $1000++ – $10,000.
Tips on saving: If your package doesn’t include Wedding Car for Rental, try and rent a more affordable one or borrow a car. Car rental prices can range from $200++ for a Volkswagen to $600+ for a Mercedes Benz and that’s a promotional price!
I would say budget at least $5000 in total. If it’s not that expensive, use the extra money to splurge on your honeymoon!
Total Range: $5000
It’s recommended to budget another $5000 for all of these if you want quality shots and videos that last a lifetime. Pre-Wedding Photoshoots can range from $1000 and above.
Actual day photos can range from $900++ for 5 hours to $2000++ for 15 hours depending on the hours that you booked them for.
Tips on saving: Rather than getting 1 Photographer and 1 Videographer, consider getting 1 excellent photographer to save cost.
Remember: People change, but the people in photos don’t. They capture memories for you. Don’t allow room for regret when the photos are out and the quality is horrible. It’s not worth the money saved. You can have a smaller banquet, smaller car, cheaper gown whatever, but photos usually last a lifetime doesn’t it?
Total Range: $5000
Wedding rings can cost from $500++ each for an affordable ring to $10,000 for a really expensive rings from well known jewellery stores like Cartier, Tiffany & Co, Harry Winston etc.
I’d recommend spending within your budget. $2000-4000 is an ideal range to budget for. It’s a buffer, so if you spend lesser than that, again use the money to spend on other things!
Solemnization can set you back by at least a few thousand if you plan on holding it at scenic locations etc etc. Budget between $3000-4000 if so. Eg: Singapore Flyer Solemnization Package cost around there!
Total Range: $8000.
Let’s be brutally honest. This will be where the majority of your wedding expenses will be.
Reason: It’s price / table. Prices range from $600++ per table at Bayview Hotel to $1200++ per table at Marina Bay Sands for a minimum of 20 tables at least.
Tips on saving: Lunch Banquets are usually slightly cheaper. There are places where prices range from $200++ to $500+ / table but don’t expect restaurant quality food.
Since we’re on that subject, a wedding banquet is all about the food right? Or not? Why not hold it at a good restaurant then? Since the food is guaranteed to better than hotel banquets. After all, a restaurant’s food IS the main reason why it’s established in the first place.
Anyway, I’d say budget between $30,000 – $50,000 considering the price of $1000/table for a total number of 30-50 tables.
Trust me, prices of all these will rise in the years to come due to our good friend, “INFLATION”.
Wedding Banquet Packages in a hotel would usually include free flow of drinks, wedding cakes, invitation cards, guestbooks, complimentary champagne, champagne pyramid, projector screen and possibly one night stay at the hotel itself.
Total Range: $50,000
GRAND TOTAL: SGD$68,000
Now, this is only a rough estimate. There may be other costs involved. Prices stated here does not yet include a Honeymoon which can cost anywhere from $5000-$10,000.
NEW GRAND TOTAL: SGD$78,000
Now, people may tell you to splurge as much as you want because you would be receiving red packets that will offset the total price.
My opinion? No. Don’t take that advice. Save the amount you need without relying on red packets.
The money you receive can be used to offset the costs or go towards your joint savings/ investments whatever. But don’t put too much hope on red packets.
And if you don’t have enough money to get married, then you’re not ready to get married.
Like I keep emphasising, don’t splurge on this dream day only to deal with huge debts in the months and years to come.
All the prices stated, are a buffer. The real costs of a wedding can be significantly lower than $78,000 and I have no doubt it can be. Spend within your means.
And one last thing. Your Wedding is a major part of your lives. But it’s not the only thing that should matter. When all of it is over, your family, friends will go back to their lives. You and your partner will now have to cope with your daily expenses and new life together. So make sure you have enough savings to begin preparations for the next phase in life.
All of the information provided above was found by my own research. What you may find, or what you have spent previously may differ from the costs stated above.
Did you spend more or less? Do share with me if possible! I’d like to know the average cost of a wedding by fellow Singaporeans!
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